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"The forgiveness program enabled me to learn that forgiveness is not necessarily about condoning someone’s actions or behavior, but it is about accepting those behaviors and moving on from them. This was a profound discovery for me, as I had the misperception that forgiving someone meant I was allowing them to behave in that manner or excusing them from their behavior. I was stuck in my inability to forgive, and the person it hurt the most was myself. Now it is easier for me to release my anger and resentment by forgiving."

- Tracey McGilvray, Sedona
Lori

28 Day E-mail Course:
Transformation through Forgiveness

Transformation Through ForgivenessAre you holding on to hurt, anger or resentment? Have you wondered what to do with all this hurt, anger and resentment?

As the saying goes, "It's like drinking the poison, hoping someone else will die."

Of course you KNOW it's not healthy to hang on to it, but you feel like it’s just impossible to let go...enter Transformation through Forgiveness!

Why Forgive Anyway?

Forgiveness is for you; you do not forgive for "their" sake. Do it for yourself! It would be great if they would come to you and ask forgiveness but you must accept the fact that some people will never do that. That is their choice. They do not NEED to be forgiven. They did what they did and that is it - except for the consequences, which THEY must live with.

Only 28 days to forgiveness? Is this really possible? YES!!! In fact, you should start noticing changes within the first week of the course, perhaps immediately.

The Secret to Lasting Love...

HEALTHY love relationships are not possible without forgiveness! You cannot have a loving and rewarding relationship with anyone else, much less yourself, if you continue to hold on to things that happened in the past. Regardless of the situation, making peace with past love partners, your parents, children, your boss or anyone who you think may have "done you wrong" is the only way to improve your chances of a "healthy" relationship with yourself or anyone else for that matter!

You know those couples that still adore each other after 10 years of marriage? After 30 years of marriage? Ask them how they did it and they will tell you, forgiveness, not holding onto grudges, not keeping score, letting things go play a big part in making love last.

Oh, you know what else they will tell you, NOT feeling guilt and shame and blame...forgiving yourself on a regular basis is also key!

How Forgiveness Gives You the Power to Create...

There is no future in the past. You can never live in the present and create a new and exciting future for yourself and your love partner if you always stay stuck in your personal history (which doesn't really exist anywhere except in your memory).

Worse, not forgiving simply creates a future that often resembles your past. You repeat patterns and attract situations and people that will continually show up again and again until you forgive. It's a cruel, but true law of the universe: Until you forgive, you will likely receive more of the same.

To forgive means to "give up," to let go. It also means to restore oneself to basic goodness and health. When we forgive, we are willing to give up resentment, revenge and obsession. We are willing to restore faith not only in ourselves, but in life itself. The inability or unwillingness to do this causes harm in the one who is holding onto the anger.

"The only upside of anger is the person you become. Hopefully someone that wakes up one day and realizes they are not afraid of the journey. Someone that knows that the truth, is at best, a partially told story. That anger, like growth, comes in spurts and sits and in it's wake leaves a new chance of acceptance and the promise of calm."

From the Movie, The Upside of Anger
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tarring Kevin Costner and Joan Allen

If you are at war with others you cannot be at peace with yourself. You CAN let go... and forgive! It takes no strength to let go... only courage. Life either expands or contracts in direct proportion to your courage to forgive. Your choice to forgive or not to forgive either moves you closer to what you desire or further away from it. There is no middle ground. Change is constant.

Want peace of mind? Forgive. The same energy you use to hold on (to not forgive), is the same energy you need to create a new and exciting relationship TOGETHER; a relationship anchored in unconditional love.

Are you ready to really rock your world?

To really release the past so you can allow a more dynamic future to come in? If yes, click here to order this 28 day course:

Transformation Through Forgiveness

Forgiveness is the most important single process that brings peace to our soul and harmony to our life. All of us, at some point in our lives, have been hurt and wounded by the actions or words of another. Sometimes the grievances have been so great we thought, "no way, this I cannot forgive!" Resentment and hostility can run so deep that forgiveness becomes very difficult. We feel we have a right to our indignation!

I look forward to hearing your success with the course. Click the above image and order the entire 28-day course, delivered to your inbox daily, for only $79!

My Money Back Guarantee

If at the end of your course, you have dutifully done all the exercises with integrity and still have not felt any space or freedom open up around the person or situation you are trying to forgive, I will happily return your money. Also, I will offer you a free coaching session to help you move through to place of peace and acceptance.

Lori Rubenstein

 

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