Dating - Creating a Conscious Partnership

One of the common themes you will hear from me as we discuss relationship issues is that having a great relationship starts with you. If you are a happy single person, you will be way more attractive to a future partner. Knowing and Loving Yourself is the key! I talk to many people who have a vision of what they want in a partner, but have never stopped to ask the question:

"Am I the person who will attract the person I want into my life?"

I am not just talking about law of attraction stuff, I’m talking about action. If you want someone who is in good health, are you in good health? If you want someone who is light hearted, are you happy and joyful? BE that which you want to attract.

If there is baggage left over from past relationships that influences how you interact with others, then DEAL with it. Do your Forgiveness work. Figure out your Life Purpose. Work through the exercises in the Dating Package and be ready to find the love of your life. Oh, you think there is only one? Hum, maybe it’s time to have a new thought about that.

If you were co-dependent in the last relationship, or were in an abusive relationship, did you work to the point where you are now satisfied with who you are? If you have been divorced and are holding onto anger, you probably have not completed the Transcending Divorce workbook.

Dating can be scary, it's true. The fear is usually centered around not having enough information, not feeling like you are good enough, or fear of being hurt. Yet, a piece of you truly wants a spiritual loving connection with another human being. Whether or not you believe in the concept of a soul-mate, what you want is a loving conscious partnership. What do I mean by that? There are 3 levels of relationship.

(1) What can you do for me level, where each person in a relationship is looking out for themselves. Most of our relationships have been level ones.

(2) The Equal Relationship, where you attempt to live fairly equitable lives, both work, both help out at home and with children, this is usually the goal, to be treated equally in the relationship. The problem with this relationship is you end up being basically business partners who live together, rather than passionate partners.

(3) What can I do for YOU level, where both of you love and care so much about each other, you always desire to meet the other person's needs. Since both of you are doing this, your own needs are usually met.

Most of my clients want the level three relationships, but just need some help getting there. If that is you, then you MUST work on yourself first. Get the I am Petrified to Date Again Dating Package, and you will work through the necessary issues to get to the place where you will attract that level three conscious relationship into your life!