Dating - Creating a Conscious Partnership
One of the common themes you will hear from me as we discuss
relationship issues is that having a great relationship starts
with you. If you are a happy single person, you will be way
more attractive to a future partner. Knowing and Loving Yourself
is the key! I talk to many people who have a vision of what
they want in a partner, but have never stopped to ask the
question:
"Am I the person who
will attract the person I want into my life?"
I am not just talking about law of attraction stuff, I’m
talking about action. If you want someone who is in good health,
are you in good health? If you want someone who is light hearted,
are you happy and joyful? BE that which you want to attract.
If there is baggage left over from past relationships that
influences how you interact with others, then DEAL with it.
Do your Forgiveness
work. Figure out your Life Purpose. Work
through the exercises in the Dating
Package and be ready to find the love of your
life. Oh, you think there is only one? Hum, maybe it's time
to have a new thought about that.
If you were co-dependent in the last relationship, or were
in an abusive relationship,
did you work to the point where you are now satisfied with
who you are? If you have been divorced and
are holding onto anger, you probably have not completed the
Transcending
Divorce
workbook.
Dating can be scary, it's true. The fear is usually centered
around not having enough information, not feeling like you
are good enough, or fear of being hurt. Yet, a piece of you
truly wants a spiritual loving connection with another human
being. Whether or not you believe in the concept of a soul-mate,
what you want is a loving conscious partnership. What do I
mean by that? There are 3 levels of relationship.
(1) What can you do for me level, where each person in a
relationship is looking out for themselves. Most of our relationships
have been level ones.
(2) The Equal Relationship, where you attempt to live fairly
equitable lives, both work, both help out at home and with
children, this is usually the goal, to be treated equally
in the relationship. The problem with this relationship is
you end up being basically business partners who live together,
rather than passionate partners.
(3) What can I do for YOU level, where both of you love and
care so much about each other, you always desire to meet the
other person's needs. Since both of you are doing this, your
own needs are usually met.
Most of my clients want the level three relationships, but
just need some help getting there. If that is you, then you
MUST work on yourself first. Get the I
am Petrified to Date Again Dating Package, and
you will work through the necessary issues to get to the place
where you will attract that level three conscious relationship
into your life!
Special:
The Winning Dating Package for Successful Women
You
are told by everyone you know how wonderful you are. You are
highly skilled and competent in your work life. You are admired
and respected by many, yet you can't find Mr. Right. Work
is great, but you miss having love and a lover, someone to
talk to and go out with.
If
that is your situation, then this
coaching package is for you.
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